"The redemptive sacrifice of Jesus Christ
on the Cross gives us the hope of eternal life with God and the final
resurrection - the hope of fully enjoying God's presence forever. In light
of this wondrous hope, we Christians can find ourselves feeling guilty
for our sadness. Instead of mourning the loss of a loved one, we think
that we instead ought to be happy for the deceased's hopeful enjoyment
of the beatific vision. This notion has led us often to forgo a
mournful, tearful, dirge-filled funeral, for a forced 'celebration of
life' in its place. A celebration of life can often overlook the
importance of praying for the soul of the deceased - the tradition of the
Church since her earliest days. Saint Thomas Aquinas writes that praying
for the dead is an expression of charity (ST Suppl. q. 71, a. 2). But the process of celebrating one's life actually finds its fitting place in the sadness of mourning."
In a recent commentary, Brother Pius Henry, O.P., reflected on the role of mourning in Christian lives "with the joy for the gifts given to us through our loved ones here in this present life, and with the prayerful hope of enjoying them perfectly in the life to come."
To access Br. Pius' complete post, please visit:
Dominicana: The Purpose of Good Christian Mourning (2 JAN 24)
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